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MAR-10-10
14:17:3
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Forum: Singles Dating Scam Reports
Scammer Alert: mrswhite
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Nannette
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51-60
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mrswhite has been deleted by our scam tracking system.
mrswhite claims to be:
race: White/Caucasian, age: 34 years old, Female, height: 5' 10", weight: 85 lbs., eyecolor: BROWN, haircolor: BROWN, occupation: SELF EMPLOYED.
mrswhite claims to be from LONDON, United Kingdom. The IP address indicates they are from - - -.
They repeated the same comments...
Comments read:
Family & Pets: AMA WELL PASSIONATE WOMAN OF GOD AND I REALLY WISH TO KNOW MORE ABOUT PEOPLE AND LIFE EXPERIENCES
DEAREST BELOVED
Mrs. Melinda Ford White
17 Copse Hill, Wimbledon,
SW20 0NE, London,
United Kingdom.
My Dear,
I am the above named person but now undergoing medical treatment in Barnes Hospital,South Wople Way, SW14 8SU, London, England. I am married to Sir Ford White who worked with British Judicial Commission in Chelsea England for over a decade before he died on 5th of July in the year 2005. We were married for fifteen years without a child. He died after a brief illness that lasted for two weeks. Before his death he made a vow to use his wealth for the down trodden and the less privileged in the society. Since his death I decided not to re-marry or get a child outside my matrimonial home.
When my late husband was alive he deposited the sum of 4 Million (Four Million Pounds sterling) with one Finance/Bank in Europe. Presently, this money is still with the Bank. Recently, my Doctor told me that I would not last for the next 4 months due to a rare form of cancer of the pancreas. Though what disturbs me most is my stroke. Having known my condition I decided to donate this fund to an individual or better still a God fearing person who will utilize this money the way I am going to instruct herein.
Please accept to stand as the original beneficiary to my late husband to enable us claim the money, the money will be transferred to your personal bank account in your state city with the assistance of my private lawyer whom will prepare all the required Legal Certificates.
The money is meant for the project for the less privileged and down trodden in our society, please use this money for that purpose as it is my late husband's dying wish and also God plan...
Please assure me that you will act according to my specification herein.
You are very lucky to have been chosen for this assignment, you will be greatly rewarded.
I will also be most glad if you can tell me a little about yourself.
Hoping to hear from you. Thank you and May the Almighty bless you.
You can contact me with your positive response.
Mrs.Melinda Ford White
Email: mrsmelindawhite01@hotmail.com
Yours Sincerely,
Mrs. Melinda Ford white.
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MAR-9-10
19:1:48
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: Women Asking Out Men
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SweetTweet
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51-60
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I think it's nice when a man finds me interesting and begins talking to me. About feminism, I don't want to kill snakes or open doors, if a man is nearby and offers his assistance. If no man is around, I'll scream and find a 2 by 4 heavy brick and kill that snake just as dead. Feminine to me means deferring to the one who has the most experience. Men like to be admired and appreciated. I like to be loved and my opinion respected.
If it's a first date, I'll offer to split the bill. No hassles about details, I want to have fun. I'm still shy about asking a man out blame it on my Mom's home training.
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MAR-8-10
15:50:45
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: Women Asking Out Men
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lowcarb
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61-70
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yes, yes,
i agree. it is fine for the ladies to ask out the men.
look what happened to bruce willis.
a partnership of equal responsibilities and equal authority is the only way to go. and, if that is true, then the ladies must have an equal opportunity to express their interests as much as the men have opportunity to express their interests.
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MAR-8-10
13:5:42
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Forum: Christian Singles Member Surveys
RE: Projective Identification
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SeekingHeart
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51-60
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It is prevalent, particularly on line. I know people on the networking sites, even the Christian/Adventist dating sites, who seem to repetitively and painfully follow the pattern I'm describing. Have you seen this? Have you fallen for this? Personally, although i have been/am member of handful of Christian networking sites geared to finding a significant life-relationship, I take certain precautions. I do not use MySpace or FaceBook to find/collect potential "mates"; for the most part, every one i "friend" here is either someone I have known previously, or with whom i share some mutual interest or friend etc. I do know many use FaceBook to 'find" new "dates".
Any one I communicate with i try to draw into the forums, and specifically out of only communicating through private channels. It’s too easy to put on the blinders, and I do not get any picture of how they relate to others. Reticence on their behalf, or outright avoidance of their participation in 'public' discourse is an initial "idiot light" on my dash to find the "one'". I check my gauges, scan the mirrors, lower the radio, and watch closely, often ceasing all private communications with someone who will not communicate in the open styles. Not only might this suggest they do not wish to foreclose other options/suitors they may have, it might also suggest they are not a good match for me personally. Learning these fundamental personal differences, and making early and wise choices using this often-overlooked pattern, before emotional entanglements/connections are forged, can save much grief, pain, heartache, and time.
I do try, as early as possible in these budding relationships, to meet the person, in order to better gauge their personality, and character. Transparency, disclosure, openness, honesty...chemistry, 'sense', intuition.... are all hard enough to gauge, but downright impossible to even question once we have made that inner-leap that "she's the ONE". If the mutuality is apparent, the feeling is verbalized. Refusal by the "intended" to meet honestly and openly at this pivotal relational "turning point" is, for me anyway, immediate indication of irreconcilable relational or personality differences. This assertion of my responsibility to remain true to myself and to the quest i am on often results in the other ceasing all communication. That is OK...because it also allows me to invest myself, my time and resources NOT to trying to convince myself that i must "win", avoid "failure" (it is NOT failure; it is rather a significant success), or attempting to convince YOU that I am the better prospect. These other agenda's and machinations inevitably draws us into falsification of self, and create a relational environment such that we probably can never meet in the place of identity-honesty, which I believe is requisite for a deeper connection.
It is obvious to most, I believe, that we all have several people we communicate with, and probably hope to get to know better to evaluate potential matches and eventually choose one significant relationship. If i need to hide from you the identities of these other people who are somewhat interested in me in the same way, (ostensibly so i can select the "best" one) so that I can also entertain this possibility with them (if I do not find this with any "particular" one, say for instance, YOU), then what does that say about me? If i am "playing the field" with many such people, if i am desperate and grabbing the first person who shows glimmer of interest, if i attempt to foreclose YOUR choices in communication with others, if I inflate myself with false embellishments, or denigrate others....
Would you not be more careful communicating with ME?
The others who are "interested" in me...can give YOU a glimpse into the type of person I really am...
how I relate to them can speak volumes to you of my possessiveness or latent jealousies/insecurities.
If i avoid showing you my behaviors even in these admittedly limited ways...would you not try to examine my motivations? I'm just askin....
...be careful out there, my friend. You might be your own worst enemy, drawing you to walk in ways fraught with danger and hurt, connect with people who might not be as they may try present, creating seeming no-win impasse which might be totally avoidable.
there is a way,
a lighted path, though narrow.
A straight way, which is not impossible,
but is difficult...
unless one is "surrendered".
Surrendered defenses,
Surrendered hunger,
Surrendered agenda,
Surrendered self.
Surrendered to the greater; GOD.
My needs and wants, in this light, have a diametrically different flavor.
No longer bitter, no longer lost, no longer wandering and wondering.
The sweeter flavor of surrendering my bitters for better fruits?
Priceless.
blessings all,
Timo
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MAR-8-10
1:6:14
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Forum: Serious Discussion for Christian Singles
eating disorders
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lowcarb
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this will not help, because people have to come to a decision on their own. but i am going to say it anyway. few people enjoyed dessert or sugar pop more than me, but when i was diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. i stopped all sugar. 20 years ago i tried very hard to quit sugar pop but couldn't stand it. the first time i tried it again after my diagnosis it was fine.
and the weight just fell off in a few weeks. i was not even trying to lose weight, it just came off. now i maintain a cool 180, and sometimes fall a few pounds below and have to try to eat more than i do. and, let me tell you, i eat a tremendous amount of food.
i have desserts every day thanks to splenda and you have to pick and choose the best sugar free candy and ice cream and so forth.
the anchor of my diet is making my own WHOLE GRAIN wheat bread. the b vitamins enable the body to assimilate your food more completely, therefore very little of it even has a chance to go to the hips or anywhere else it shouldn't be.
some dried fruit is like candy. you have to pick and choose. meat, cheese, nuts, and eggs do not have carbohydrates. these are staples of my regime.
i cannot believe how much food i eat and yet i do not gain weight.
i'm sorry to say it, but sugar pop must go. i do not know why diet pop tastes all right now. if i were to drink regular pop, i'm sure it would taste bad. so, maybe you get used to whatever you drink, i don't know.
good luck to your friend.
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